Having read this over and over again on TUIB's blog post, I thought I should just post it here:
"There's something fishy about  describing people's feelings. You try hard to be accurate, but as soon  as you start to define such and such a feeling, language lets you down.  When we really speak the truth, words are insufficient. But they're  important to us, nonetheless, because they are what connects us to  thoughts other than those belonging to us."- Iris Murdoch